Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Nick's Life: June 2011

The warmer days of summer are upon us, so Nick takes advantage of cooler activities like running through the yard sprinkler. I still setup the old fashioned sprinkler for his enjoyment. And he uses the visqueen from our construction as a slip-n-slide. We probably look like local trash to the neighbors, but we're having fun. Grandpa got him a small kiddie pool, which has gotten its use, although he insists on warm water in the pool which I fill with the hot/cold spickets from the garage. We're spoiling these young kids.

He got into an unintentional tussle with some bigger kids at the indoor playground, and came away with a black eye, which lasted for well over a week. He needs to learn the bigger kids are a little rougher, and he's gotta play defense in those situations.

We played at the school playground across the street one afternoon. I kicked around a soccer ball with a boy names Slava for a half hour before I realized he didn't speak English. After all my barking at Nick, though, he knew Nick by name before we left. A great equalizer between kids that are 4+ years apart is the lack of a common language - they played together really well.

New foods this month: Cinnamon Toast Crunch (aka: Crunchy Little Squares, which he eats by the box) and beef jerky.
Another leap forward this month with the push for independence. I wake up in the morning and find evidence Nick has used the bathroom on his own during the night. He insisted yesterday morning on having a spoon with his cereal, and actually used it. He now puts on his own shoes, and takes off his own clothes. He seems to have a genetic tendency towards 'perfection' (yeah, imagine that,) but not in an obsessive way... he recognizes right and wrong in his view of structure, and insists on compliance: engine at the front and caboose at the end, prayer before meals, ice in his water, not skipping any words in his books. His vocabulary is taking on an independent tone as well, as he makes demands of his toys ('Yes
it will!') when something can't be done, and 'Don't even think about it!' when he's trying to stop something in its tracks. He also shops for his own groceries - only items "on special."

You can tell from the pictures he loves to help with work tasks, from trimming trees and hauling branches, to watering flowers. He planted a couple sunflowers to see what will happen, of which one has survived the starving bunny onslaught. For Father's Day, he helped me paint my great grandfather's concrete bird feeder; Nick is pictured here with it, on its 5th generation. My cousin counted this thing has now been hauled to like 12 homes in its lifetime.

Each night before bed we now drag him around on his bath towel, and toss him into bed: he calls it the "Turtle toss." He crawls around on the floor after tubby under a towel, looking for slippers to lick ("Turtle licks"). Have no idea where these ideas came from.

At dinner this evening, I spotted a green Nerd candy on the floor, which must have strayed from an earlier snack. When I pointed it out to Nick, he dove head first across the room like he was taking out Ray Fosse, face to the ground, and licked it off the floor, like it was the last Nerd on earth.

- Jason

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Nick's Life: May 2011

We still read with Nick each night at bedtime, and Brandi does a good job of keeping new books in the rotation from the local library. I am more amazed each day how he can memorize things he hears. Yeah, all kids repeat things. But Brandi can read him a book once, maybe twice, and he can recite the entire story back, word for word, like he's reading it. And he reads with tone to the story. My father thinks he's reading at a third grade level already.

With Summer in Michigan comes the festival season. We went to the Wixom Founder's Festival with Bo, Robin and Mason a few weekends ago, which was a low-cost good time - fire trucks, pony rides, inflatable slides, and cheap food. Nick asks the fireman, 'Why are you a fireman?" and he replies, "Because they wouldn't let me have a gun." Nick told him he wants to be a fireman, too; he knows how to play an audience, for sure. Then we followed it up with the Orchard Lake St. Mary's Polish Festival this past weekend - bigger rides, more people (like 10,000.) The latter was rain shortened, but Nick got in a couple rides and a bag of cotton candy taller than him. He drove his first 'bumper cars' called the 'Mini-Indy', and fared about as well as poor J.R.

We're meeting more neighbors, mostly through Nick. He flags them down to say hello, particularly the kids his age, and more so those with toys that he has interest in. We spent Memorial Day by the kiddie pool of his friend Jack down the street. Jack's a great kid, about two weeks younger than Nick, and red hair that reminds me of my youth.

Nick and I watched planes from Detroit Metro one afternoon, from the top deck of the parking garage. After a half hour, the tower must've seen us there, and opened up the nearby runways to larger planes, because we got an awesome show with some large passenger jets taking off and landing over our heads.

- Jason

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Nick Saves the Day

We did our part to make sure the world didn't end this weekend for seven starlings trapped in our ductwork.

We knew they were living in the vent above the second floor, as the cover had broken, and I didn't get the nest out before the family started.

We left for a festival in Wixom with Bo,
Robin and Mason, just as we started hearing scratching in the vents. When we all returned to the house later, we heard the same noise coupled with incessant chirping, and couldn't locate it at first. When our guests left, the neighbor (Mr. Steve) and I pulled the cover from the downstairs bathroom exhaust vent, and then coaxed out the birds with a wire hanger. It took two hours, several bags, and a wire hanger... we collected five babies and both parents, who had made a brave rescue effort and got stuck. With each rescue, we couldn't believe there were more. I would guess today was the first day they could walk, and unfortunately, the only place they found to wander included an 8' drop down our vent.

We used a bird house Nick built from a kit to place the babies, and hung it from the tree in the woods behind our house. It's back in their parents' court. And we get to re-clean the bathroom tomorrow.

- Jason

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Nick in Chicago

We took a road trip to Chicago for a market research conference, heading to the windy city early to enjoy a family weekend. On the way, we got off the path thanks to the GPS which detoured us through scenic Gary, IN (that's sarcasm) and it's majestic shuttered steel industry, I looked at Brandi as we observed that stopping the car for any reason was not in our best interest (the highway literally dropped off a collapsed bridge), I say to Brandi, "Do we want to stop in anywhere and join the locals for dinner?" Nick yells, "NOOO!" from the backseat.

All he wanted to do was ride the "L" as it's a train that must be experienced. But we never got to it. We spent quiet a bit of time in the hotel, where he knew which floor we were on, which floor the pool was on, how to maneuver all the difference elevators, and was happy to share his knowledge with others.

We visited Navy Pier, primarily the Chicago Children's Museum. I got to enjoy lunch at Harry Caray's on the pier. Nick got the most charge out of the watercraft on Lake Michigan, especially the largest yachts.

We stopped in Valparaiso to see the house where Brandi grew up. Nick found a boy on the playground named Decklin, and played with the locals for a bit while Brandi walked the neighborhood.

He was obsessed with spotting the "Ink-ock tower" (that's the Hancock Tower) evey time we left the hotel, with its 'bunny ears' on top. We experienced all the usual stuff: ice cream, toy stores, horse-drawn carriages, and crazy people.

On our last evening, he wanted to swim in the hotel pool badly, but it was closed for repair. So we snuck in anyway. We got caught, but the attendant gave us a free pass for being bold, and locked us in so we had it to ourselves for a couple of hours. He likes jumping from the hot pool (hottub) to the cold pool again and again.

He also had his first sliders at White Castle. That was a winner.


- Jason

Friday, April 29, 2011

Nick's Life: April 2011

With so much work being done on our house, Nick has gotten cozy with the contractors. He knows them all by name (Mr. Brian, Mr. Mike...) and is entertained more by watching them work than by television. He got upset when the roofer came for an estimate, and left without working. "Hey! You need to fix my leaky roof!" Nick exclaimed.

Nick wakes mama up one morning, and tells her he's going to make her Thanksgiving Dinner. And proceeds to empty the entire pantry onto the kitchen table before she can get downstairs from bed. Still, he had all the necessary fixings but the turkey. He attempted self sufficiency one morning by getting his own water from the fridge, and the Britta filter container fell out onto his head, shattering on the floor, soaking him and the hardwood floor. It took hours to calm him - he was very upset.

He's mixing up words on purpose now, which is supposedly a sign of intelligence (not my words.) When he prays before dinner, he says, "God is great, God is good, A-nut." But he still gets dinosaur names right, like when he tells me a, "Ankylosaurus is not a Euoplocephalus, Daddy." I can't even pronounce these things.

He came up with nicknames for both of us one day, out of nowhere. I am "your majesty, Daddy" and mama is a "Camel Nurse." And don't call him 'little boy' any more, he's a big boy now.

He had a good Easter, with several baskets and a new bike. Grandpa Mantel came to our house for dinner, and played with Nick and his new toys. We also got some Spring work done outside, tying up some trees that needed repair, as well as pruning. Nick loves to help his grandpa, but now wants to cut down trees everytime he steps outside. He also got a Hot Wheels elevator-ramp that launches cars from 7-feet in the air, across my kitchen, and into the face of my new cupboards. We pad the kitchen with sheets like a psycho ward to protect it from projectile toys.

- Jason